http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/-t1.htm Please come here to talk about your problems and issues, whether they are LGBT related or not, and we'll do our best to give you advice. Mon, 23 Nov 2009 23:48:49 GMT 10 http://illiweb.com/fa/m/logo4.gif http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/-t1.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/cowardly-lion-t164.htm Elmoslayer I have real trouble working up the courage to do things. Even when I know that if I do it it'll be good for me, or if its something as simple as talking to somebody that I haven't met before or doing a piece of schoolwork that I know uses skills I'm not good at (eg. essays), I really cant seem to man up enough to do it. I just keep thinking of how it could all go wrong, and that I'll fail and screw it up. I'm sitting here right now trying to work up the courage to do something I know ... The Blue Room Mon, 23 Nov 2009 23:48:49 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/cowardly-lion-t164.htm#3348 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/cowardly-lion-t164.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/life-in-drag-t152.htm greven THIS IS NOW THE OFFICIAL DRAG PICTURE THREAD! Post all your drag goodness here Yeah. So I had my first offline meeting with someone I met online, more specifically with my (or so I thought) soon to be boyfriend Kristofer from sweeden. I had heard things werent the same online as off and ofcourse the people saying that were right on the money. So yeah, we kissed, we fooled around and he gave me a handjob or three, but I gotta admit I didnt really feel it, I felt the handjob, what I ... The Blue Room Sun, 20 Sep 2009 08:32:40 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/life-in-drag-t152.htm#2858 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/life-in-drag-t152.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/relationship-troubles-t159.htm Elmoslayer Yeah, everyone has them. Post them here and recieve our advice, at only $2.00 per post! The Blue Room Sat, 14 Nov 2009 19:20:45 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/relationship-troubles-t159.htm#3120 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/relationship-troubles-t159.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/trying-to-get-over-the-epic-crush-and-into-the-game-t136.htm Fly Hue Right so, I'm starting my freshman year of college next year, just for some background. I've had the same crush on the same girl for three long not-too-bad years, and who I've know for about 4 years. She's one year older than me and even now I still feel as helplessly infatuated as I ever have in my life. She went to community college in town for the past year, so she's been around, though we haven't been able to talk much since she graduated. I still try to plan get togethers, but a lot of them ... The Blue Room Sun, 05 Jul 2009 23:38:23 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/trying-to-get-over-the-epic-crush-and-into-the-game-t136.htm#2596 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/trying-to-get-over-the-epic-crush-and-into-the-game-t136.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/what-the-hell-is-uke-and-seme-t107.htm greven I like NaruSasu (Its gay fanart, if someone dont know) and I have been running into the terms Uke and Seme a lot, and you guys are the only ones I thought might know so... What the F does it mean? The Blue Room Mon, 27 Apr 2009 15:52:36 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/what-the-hell-is-uke-and-seme-t107.htm#1813 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/what-the-hell-is-uke-and-seme-t107.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/tears-out-hair-what-should-i-do-t147.htm NikiPaprika Okay, so...I've been contemplating this for a long time, and it's not getting any easier each time I try and think it through... Basically, I've gotten my uni timetable, and it's booked for everyday during the week, 9am-5pm (thursday is 9-4). And now I've got a new job, but its at the weekend, both saturday and sunday. ...And my girlfriend is at high school. ...She lives about 12 miles away from me, and I can't drive yet... Thing is, she came out to her parents (although they were ... The Blue Room Sat, 05 Sep 2009 22:19:51 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/tears-out-hair-what-should-i-do-t147.htm#2811 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/tears-out-hair-what-should-i-do-t147.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/glbt-movie-t87.htm Poleroid
wtf, their relationship is moving too fast! She meets her, then ten minutes later they're holding hands and kissing.

Is this just hollywood magic, or something?]]> The Blue Room Wed, 25 Mar 2009 04:29:09 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/glbt-movie-t87.htm#1399 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/glbt-movie-t87.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/gay-group-at-school-t62.htm FoxxinMinx Well I'm not really sure what this topic is suppose to be asking or anything , so here goes See theres this group at my school a click , if you will , and there basically the GLBT group in the school all the GLBT people are in that group and they call themselves " The Gay group" ... Now... This is just how I feel so please dont bite my head off.. and I suppose this topic might fit better in The Red Room but I'm new to this forum so bear with me.. I don't want to hang out ... The Blue Room Mon, 02 Mar 2009 05:59:12 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/gay-group-at-school-t62.htm#822 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/gay-group-at-school-t62.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/terrified-of-the-answer-t19.htm greven I have no coming out story. But I do have a story I would like to tell, it is a story about my biggest problem in my personal life. There is no question, but please comment if you feel like it, well here goes Terrified of the answer One thing have been stuck in my mind for the last 4 years, one sentence shook my world to its very roots and I am still picking up the pieces. About 5 years ago I fell in love with this girl, Johanne is her name, she had just transferred in from another ... The Blue Room Mon, 02 Feb 2009 23:51:30 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/terrified-of-the-answer-t19.htm#125 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/terrified-of-the-answer-t19.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/i-need-a-monkey-wrench-t100.htm greven I need problems, big time, I need something to go wrong, I need to get beaten up, I need to get scammed, I need someone to ruin something in my life. No I don’t want the trouble, but I am beginning to think that I need it. I am a strange guy, I don’t get mad for more than 5 minutes, I don’t hold grudges, I don’t get prejudice, I don’t get love, I cant understand jealousy and I can’t see how someone can be with someone they don’t love. I live in a world of ideals that I don’t ... The Blue Room Tue, 07 Apr 2009 23:25:31 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/i-need-a-monkey-wrench-t100.htm#1576 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/i-need-a-monkey-wrench-t100.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/manicpanic-t96.htm Joneko Ok heregoes. Sorry to dump on you all. I have either an anxiety or mood disorder, part of which involves serious manic episodes. I was on medication for a few years, but that medication has stopped working, which is apparently common, and I did take the initiative of seeing someone at the uni to find out what to do. I'm scheduling a doctor's appointment tomorrow to either change the medication or be referred to someone else who can. My problem is that, in the meantime, I'm finding ... The Blue Room Sun, 05 Apr 2009 18:08:32 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/manicpanic-t96.htm#1536 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/manicpanic-t96.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/heartbreak-t79.htm Avie ]]> The Blue Room Sat, 14 Mar 2009 08:06:51 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/heartbreak-t79.htm#1162 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/heartbreak-t79.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/feelings-of-not-fitting-in-anywhere-t46.htm Skyangel I had this really touching mail sent to me during the week from a teenage girl who sometimes feels ashamed or upset that she has been born different to her friends. I've given her my thoughts on this already, but something like this touches so many of us right across the LGBT world; so many of us have felt this way, and still do at any age, but there is no easy answer is there? This is from a bright and happy girl who sometimes feels suddenly very alone. I am just a single voice, but I think ... The Blue Room Sat, 21 Feb 2009 11:24:31 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/feelings-of-not-fitting-in-anywhere-t46.htm#493 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/feelings-of-not-fitting-in-anywhere-t46.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/money-troubles-t92.htm Jase I don't expect anyone to help about this. In fact, I don't want pity either. So I'm not sure why I'm posting this- I think I need to get it out of my system to feel better. We're financially in trouble. Actually, it goes beyond trouble now, really. About nine months or more ago, I quit my job. There were various reasons, from stress over a manager harassing me, to his consequent firing and my involvement (and knowing that it was for a different reason entirely, and that the company didn't ... The Blue Room Fri, 03 Apr 2009 21:24:24 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/money-troubles-t92.htm#1516 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/money-troubles-t92.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/nvm-cleared-now-o3o-t86.htm NikiPaprika EDIT: Okay, I went with the advice and I told her bluntly. She didn't like hearing it at first, however, and I thought things were going to get ugly, but after i explained to her and gave her some time to let it sink in, she understood and we're back to being good buddies again :3 H'okay. So, first of all, I wanna say hi to everyone, and how awesome it is to find a cozy little forum like this! :3 I've been reading some very interesting threads! :3 But, I do have a problem I would like to ... The Blue Room Sun, 22 Mar 2009 15:05:16 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/nvm-cleared-now-o3o-t86.htm#1327 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/nvm-cleared-now-o3o-t86.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/transgender-acceptance-issues-t85.htm Jase As most of you who know me know, I'm transgender. Pre-op, and in fact even pre-hormones thanks to the agonising speed of the NHS. (National Health Service for none-Brits.) Now, I've not had any initially bad reactions. I've had a lot of "wtf" reactions, where people just DIDN'T know what to say- I mean, let's face it, it's a huge mental step from "she's a tomboy" to "she's really a man inside". It's a conclusion people rarely think of or expect. There were ... The Blue Room Sat, 21 Mar 2009 16:58:00 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/transgender-acceptance-issues-t85.htm#1295 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/transgender-acceptance-issues-t85.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/interpretation-of-the-bible-referring-to-gay-love-etc-t77.htm Skyangel 'PRAYERS FOR BOBBY' This is the film I saw recently which raised some very interesting viewpoints about the way the bible is understood. The story is based on the TRUE STORY of Mary Griffith; a devoutly religious mother who helped drive her son to suicide by being unable to accept that he was homosexual. After his death she was unable to find peace with god and began to question the teachings of the bible. For those who have not seen the film, this is the part of the script I found the ... The Blue Room Wed, 11 Mar 2009 18:09:20 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/interpretation-of-the-bible-referring-to-gay-love-etc-t77.htm#1125 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/interpretation-of-the-bible-referring-to-gay-love-etc-t77.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/relationships-as-a-pre-op-transgender-t47.htm Jase Before I start- hi. My name's Jason; I'm a female-to-male transgender who has yet to go under the knife. Also- transgender is a term used for someone living as the opposite gender who has not been operated upon. Transexual is a term used for someone who's been operated upon to become the opposite gender to their birth gender. And transvestite is a term for someone who likes to dress as the opposite gender but not live as it. Just to make sure you know what I mean when I refer to myself ... The Blue Room Sat, 21 Feb 2009 16:01:53 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/relationships-as-a-pre-op-transgender-t47.htm#501 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/relationships-as-a-pre-op-transgender-t47.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/tread-lightly-t52.htm greven Lets be honest here: I dont know a lot about LGBT, sure I know a few facts and stuff like that, but that is not what I am thinking of. I dont know the community, that is partly the reason I am here, but when meeting a group of people who all have something like this in common, one gets a bit... threatened. The thing is that when I write in here I am being VERY careful not to step on anyones feet, when it comes to the LGBT subject, sure I can take some strange points of view and say some stuff ... The Blue Room Sun, 22 Feb 2009 23:50:22 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/tread-lightly-t52.htm#596 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/tread-lightly-t52.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/the-character-as-an-example-of-the-whole-culture-t11.htm tara Edit: I'm not really sure where this topic should go. Maybe the Blue Room since it's a personal creative issue (hence where I put it), and maybe the Red Room since it could be debatable, and maybe the Clubhouse because it falls into the huh? category, but feel free to move it, since I have nooo idea. I've run into this issue not only with my LGBT characters, but with any minority. A while ago I read the book Gods & Monsters, and it was a special edition where the author wrote about ... The Blue Room Sun, 01 Feb 2009 03:32:56 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/the-character-as-an-example-of-the-whole-culture-t11.htm#36 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/the-character-as-an-example-of-the-whole-culture-t11.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/long-distance-_-t30.htm wyldflowa Well, I'm not as long-distance from my sweetie as some people have been, but it's terribly hard. We just got back from a romanticy birthday holiday in Italy together and now going back to life solo again is already getting me down... Plus the thought that we may not be able to see each other for a long while now (me unable to get breaks from work, her unable to get breaks from uni and both being too poor to afford the trains) isn't making it easier. Then there's future thoughts for this year... ... The Blue Room Mon, 09 Feb 2009 12:39:21 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/long-distance-_-t30.htm#283 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/long-distance-_-t30.htm http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/patience-t13.htm Avie Okay. So... Here is my situation: I met this girl online. Let's name her "Helen." After several days of communication, we meet in person over some coffee. Of course the first meeting was indifferent. Coincendently, we both have the "shy and nervous" trait. All in all, I like her. Helen is in the closet. She is the type of person that is wayyy in her "shell" and in comparison, I'm the opposite. She hasn't told me what she thinks of me yet but she did ... The Blue Room Sun, 01 Feb 2009 17:49:10 GMT http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/patience-t13.htm#62 http://true2ourhearts.forumotion.com/the-blue-room-f3/patience-t13.htm